What most children do by this age:
Social/Emotional Milestones
Calms down within 10 minutes after you leave them, like at a childcare drop off
Notices other children and joins them to play
Language/Communication Milestones
Talks with you in a conversation using at least two back-and-forth exchanges
Asks “who,” “what,” “where,” or “why” questions, like “Where is mommy/daddy?”
Says what action is happening in a picture or book when asked, like “running,” “eating,” or “playing”
Says their first name, when asked
Talks well enough for others to understand, most of the time
Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
Draws a circle when you show them how
Avoids touching hot objects, like a stove, when you warn them
Movement/Physical Development Milestones
Strings items together, like large beads or macaroni
Puts on some clothes by themselves, like loose pants or a jacket
Uses a fork
What most children do by this age:
Social/Emotional Milestones
Pretends to be something else during play (teacher, superhero, dog)
Asks to go play with children if none are around, like “Can I play with Alex?”
Comforts others who are hurt or sad, like hugging a crying friend
Avoids danger, like not jumping from tall heights at the playground
Likes to be a “helper”
Changes behavior based on where they are (place of worship, library, playground)
Language/Communication Milestones
Says sentences with four or more words
Says some words from a song, story, or nursery rhyme
Talks about at least one thing that happened during their day, like “I played soccer.”
Answers simple questions like “What is a coat for?” or “What is a crayon for?”
Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
Names a few colors of items
Tells what comes next in a well-known story
Draws a person with three or more body parts
Movement/Physical Development Milestones
Catches a large ball most of the time
Serves themselves food or pours water, with adult supervision
Unbuttons some buttons
Holds crayon or pencil between fingers and thumb (not a fist)
What most children do by this age:
Social/Emotional Milestones
Follows rules or takes turns when playing games with other children
Sings, dances, or acts for you
Does simple chores at home, like matching socks or clearing the table after eating
Language/Communication Milestones
Tells a story they heard or made up with at least two events. For example, a cat was stuck in a tree and a firefighter saved it
Answers simple questions about a book or story after you read or tell it to him
Keeps a conversation going with more than three back-and-forth exchanges
Uses or recognizes simple rhymes (bat-cat, ball-tall)
Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
Counts to 10
Names some numbers between 1 and 5 when you point to them
Uses words about time, like “yesterday,” “tomorrow,” “morning,” or “night”
Pays attention for 5 to 10 minutes during activities. For example, during storytime or making arts and crafts (screen time does not count)
Writes some letters in their name
Names some letters when you point to them
Movement/Physical Development Milestones
Buttons some buttons
Hops on one foot