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Developmental Milestones and Tips

Developmental Milestones and Tips

What most children do by this age:


Social/Emotional Milestones

  • Calms down within 10 minutes after you leave them, like at a childcare drop off

  • Notices other children and joins them to play

 

Language/Communication Milestones

  • Talks with you in a conversation using at least two back-and-forth exchanges

  • Asks “who,” “what,” “where,” or “why” questions, like “Where is mommy/daddy?”

  • Says what action is happening in a picture or book when asked, like “running,” “eating,” or “playing”

  • Says their first name, when asked

  • Talks well enough for others to understand, most of the time

 

Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)

  • Draws a circle when you show them how

  • Avoids touching hot objects, like a stove, when you warn them

 

Movement/Physical Development Milestones

  • Strings items together, like large beads or macaroni

  • Puts on some clothes by themselves, like loose pants or a jacket

  • Uses a fork

 

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Your Child at 4 Years Old

What most children do by this age:

 

Social/Emotional Milestones

  • Pretends to be something else during play (teacher, superhero, dog)

  • Asks to go play with children if none are around, like “Can I play with Alex?”

  • Comforts others who are hurt or sad, like hugging a crying friend

  • Avoids danger, like not jumping from tall heights at the playground

  • Likes to be a “helper”

  • Changes behavior based on where they are (place of worship, library, playground)

 

Language/Communication Milestones

  • Says sentences with four or more words

  • Says some words from a song, story, or nursery rhyme

  • Talks about at least one thing that happened during their day, like “I played soccer.”

  • Answers simple questions like “What is a coat for?” or “What is a crayon for?”

 

Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)

  • Names a few colors of items

  • Tells what comes next in a well-known story

  • Draws a person with three or more body parts

 

Movement/Physical Development Milestones

  • Catches a large ball most of the time

  • Serves themselves food or pours water, with adult supervision

  • Unbuttons some buttons

  • Holds crayon or pencil between fingers and thumb (not a fist)

 

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Your Child at 5 Years Old

What most children do by this age:


Social/Emotional Milestones

  • Follows rules or takes turns when playing games with other children

  • Sings, dances, or acts for you

  • Does simple chores at home, like matching socks or clearing the table after eating

 

Language/Communication Milestones

  • Tells a story they heard or made up with at least two events. For example, a cat was stuck in a tree and a firefighter saved it

  • Answers simple questions about a book or story after you read or tell it to him

  • Keeps a conversation going with more than three back-and-forth exchanges

  • Uses or recognizes simple rhymes (bat-cat, ball-tall)

 

Cognitive Milestones (learning, thinking, problem-solving)

  • Counts to 10

  • Names some numbers between 1 and 5 when you point to them

  • Uses words about time, like “yesterday,” “tomorrow,” “morning,” or “night”

  • Pays attention for 5 to 10 minutes during activities. For example, during storytime or making arts and crafts (screen time does not count)

  • Writes some letters in their name

  • Names some letters when you point to them

 

Movement/Physical Development Milestones

  • Buttons some buttons

  • Hops on one foot

 

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Concerned About Development?

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